How to Welcome God into your Counselling Experience

As faith individuals, we believe that God wants to play a key and tangible role in our counselling experience and emotional wellness journey. Why? because He loves us and wants to see us thrive and become all that He has destined for us. 

So, understanding this, what are ways that we can intentionally involve God in our counselling experience?

Create space for God

Many of us run at 1,000 miles an hour, not leaving any time for our own thoughts, let alone giving space for the Lord to speak. It’s not in God’s nature to be abrupt, loud and competitive for our attention; he communicates typically in the still and quiet when we create space for him (see 1 Kings 19:11-13). 

So how can we do this?

Firstly, set aside time independent of distraction, noise and other sensory stimuli to reflect on what God has to say.

This may take patience and require practice in hearing the voice of God. Ask God questions that may have been developed out of a recent counselling session:

• “In the last counselling session, when we talked about a specific experience, what beliefs (or lies) did I believe about myself?”

• “God, what is the truth of the situation?”

• “God, where do I need to adjust my thinking? Or where do I need to allow you to work in my heart?”

Don’t be afraid if you don’t hear anything right away. Even simply just the act of giving space and asking these questions is going to help you become more self-aware of your thoughts and how you respond to these questions. This may lead to further discussion topics in future counselling sessions.

Prayer

Prayer is a powerful tool for welcoming God into your counselling experience. Depending on your style of prayer, you may find that it stimulates and supports you in identifying areas that you are struggling with.

Additionally, meditative, self-reflective-styled prayer can create space for God to speak to you (as discussed in point #1). 

Prayer is a powerful tool for breaking down mental barriers or blocks (sometimes referred to as strongholds). Try not to underestimate the power of prayer, and consistent prayer, for that matter.

Review (or meditation) of scripture

Many times, we receive counselling support because of belief systems or identities that we have accepted over ourselves (e.g. “I have no value” and “As such, I am depressed, which is why I am in counselling”).

Meditating on the Word of the Lord can help us understand who we are in Christ and our true value. Doing this in parallel to counselling is like a double-whammy for negative beliefs.

Summary

God wants to meet you where you are and support your counselling experience to make it as effective and life-giving as possible. He wants you to live an abundant lifestyle free from negative thinking and unhealthy emotional states. 

So, as you either look to start or continue counselling, find ways to start practising letting God into your circumstance and be prepared for the potential for incredible breakthroughs.

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